Recognizing and developing our strengths in order to flourish

Dr Helgo Schomer chats to CapeTalk/702's Redi Tlhabi about how people can flourish by simply developing their skills and investing more time onto things they are good at.

According to Dr Schomer most of us have a place where we can shine but firstly we need to establish what we good at so that everything can flow and then flourish.

Flourishing is not playing to win but flourishing is playing to play so that you enjoy to play even though you might lose

Dr Helgo Schomer, resident psychologist

Listen to the full conversation on The Redi Tlhabi Show:

Self-knowledge is the foundation; you need to know who you are and what are your strengths and weaknesses are.

Dr Helgo Schomer, resident psychologist

Once you recognise what you are good at and not hiding it, walk towards your own place where you can shine

Dr Helgo Schomer, resident psychologist

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