Red flags that your child may be a victim of bullying

A 13-year-old boy died on Tuesday morning after succumbing to injuries allegedly believed to be as a result of being bullied.

The boy and his brother were beaten repeatedly by other learners at a school in Benoni.

His mother blames the teachers, saying they should have done more.

Speaking to 702's Stephen Grootes earlier on Thursday morning, Basic Education Department director-general, Mathanzima Mweli says what we see happening in schools is a true reflection of what is happening in society.

Clinical Psychologist Jeremy Bayer highlighted some of the indicators parents could look out for to identify if their child is being bullied.

  • Academic deterioration
  • Difficulty concentrating in class
  • Absenteeism (When they don't want to get out of bed to go to school)
  • Low self-esteem
  • Dissatisfaction with self-image
  • Change in personality
  • Suicidal thoughts and behaviour

It is important for parents to know that the consequences of bullying can be catastrophic.

Jeremy Bayer, Clinical Psychologist

To hear the rest of the interview, listen below:


This article first appeared on CapeTalk : Red flags that your child may be a victim of bullying


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