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Our strength rests in our vulnerability - expert advice on letting go

Vulnerability isn't a sign of weakness and can be your greatest strength.

Clinical psychologist Khosi Jiyane says it's about recognising the essence of human nature.

She says refusing to be vulnerable and living with a false sense of control can be detrimental.

Vulnerability is about openness and requires deep trust. Jiyane adds that vulnerable people usually risk their psychological and emotional security in order to put themselves on the line.

She says that can't have power over every event or circumstance and must learn to turn vulnerability into a strength.

Vulnerability is the lowering of boundaries.

Khosi Jiyane, Clinical psychologist

Our strength rests in our vulnerability.

Khosi Jiyane, Clinical psychologist

Jiyane advises that people who refuse to be vulnerable rob themselves of the richness and nuances of life.

Listen to the conversation on The Eusebius McKaiser Show:


This article first appeared on CapeTalk : Our strength rests in our vulnerability - expert advice on letting go


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